kayla23
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Posted 5:07 pm, 01/05/2014
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This same type of thing happens to just about EVERY girl that gets married so young. She thinks it's going to be great being married and have children when she's 18, but by 19 she realizes that she forgot to have any fun so she's trying to go wild while she still can.
This isn't an issue of her being a bad person or whatever. She's just regretting getting married so young, and wants to have a little fun before she dies. People shouldn't judge her for being normal, and finally seeing the err of her ways.
Was the club actually selling her drinks, or selling them to someone else that was giving them to her? Does she have a fake ID? If either of those are true, then it's not really the club's fault.
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Absher3
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Posted 3:52 pm, 01/05/2014
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Sounds like you are mad because your adult,yet under age, married daughter got a ticket for drinking and supposedly they didn't hand a ticket to the bar... She 19 and already married . She's made her bed ,let her lye in it.
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domibob
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Posted 3:45 pm, 01/05/2014
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Her husband sounds really controlling, she kind of sounds trashy too. He probably wishes he could put a leash on that dog.
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Hot Mess
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Posted 1:44 pm, 01/05/2014
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Satan
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~glitter and glamour~
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Posted 1:19 pm, 01/05/2014
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Ok, then, don't try to reign them in.
Start digging the hole.
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JustSomethingSimple
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Posted 1:15 pm, 01/05/2014
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From experience, you can't reign someone in if they don't want to be. I have a sibling that has needed to be reigned for the last 40 years.
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~glitter and glamour~
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Posted 1:05 pm, 01/05/2014
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I am telling you, someone needs to reign the girl in. One of my dear friends was recently in the same situation with her daughter. She ended up burying her child.
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sgpb54
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Posted 12:53 pm, 01/05/2014
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you are so right, g and g. I truly feel for her mom, too. she's in for s long hard ride. so is the girls husband, if he's still with her.
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Satan
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Posted 12:52 pm, 01/05/2014
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because she was in the bar getting drunk illegally and wanting to boink mexicans?
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~glitter and glamour~
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Posted 12:50 pm, 01/05/2014
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You can't really expect proprietors of a bar to police your child. It seems you think your problem is solved if she isn't served, when, in fact, she's going to drink somewhere. As I said, your/her problems are way bigger and I hate it for you.
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sgpb54
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Posted 12:41 pm, 01/05/2014
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you can bring your kids up the best you can but they ARE going to go their on way sooner or later. as a parent of 3 grown boys, I kicked one out due to his friends parents calling complaining, police trouble (arrested many a time), and drug use when just a teen and he lived on the streets. he is in his 40's now and although no longer in police trouble, he still has not learned to be responsible by holding a job for more than 3 months or so and keeping "it" in his pants (off spring out of wedlock - garnished child support). my second teen got into trouble with the police and arrested from getting involved with the wrong crowd trying to fit in when we moved but finished school, got a job, paid his debt and damages to the property he damaged and learned his lesson. he has a good job and I have a beautiful granddaughter from his marriage.my 3rd teen has stolen money and a social security check, forged checks, has warrants for his arrest, stolen a truck, and was last known to be up north and I TURNED HIM IN and took him to the wilkes county police dept. - well got the people he stole the money and social security check from - to press charges and the police said they would pay the money so he would not have a police record, so he got kicked out. I will NOT be associated with that life. he steals a federal check and he gets off!!! so see kids will do what they want. the best thing to do is kick them out when trouble starts or their actions are approved by your house rules and pray they learn from it. it's not just the parents but the system, too. not proud of their behavior.
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kenc
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Posted 12:30 pm, 01/05/2014
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I'd say the club called the law to help get the unruly minor drunk teenagers to leave. We believe you when you say your daughter was there "drink" rainbow.
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Hot Mess
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Posted 12:22 pm, 01/05/2014
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Why is her old man in the parking lot trying to get her to leave?
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JustSomethingSimple
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Posted 11:56 am, 01/05/2014
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I was wondering why a 19 year old "girl" that is married would be going to a club alone anyway.
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hope75
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Posted 11:33 am, 01/05/2014
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From this post, I've gathered that the 19 year old is married, living at home, drinking in bars, and mama is still overly involved...
Something is wrong with this picture.
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kenc
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Posted 11:26 am, 01/05/2014
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According to the op it is - immature mother, immature "minor teenager". Wonder how much mom had to pay for her daughter's ticket. Are there no 'Spanish" kids at WCHS ?
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Satan
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Posted 11:17 am, 01/05/2014
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isn't that better than blaming failed parenting or an irresponsible child?
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kenc
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Posted 11:14 am, 01/05/2014
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So the club should be blamed for your immature daughter ?
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